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Tear-Jerker! Jada Pinkett Smith Opens Up About Her Father “I’m sitting here, I am hurting today.”

Will, Jada, Jaden and Willow get the cameras popping at the Toronto Film Festival in support of "Free Angela and All Political Prisoners."

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Jada Pinkett Smith is on a roll. In yet another Facebook post, the actress/wife/mother shared her thoughts on her father and the overall state offatherhood. Her touching words are ones to be shared to every woman and man you know, and surely ones to reflect on.

Usually sentiments like this happen around Father’s Day, but it’s remarkable that Jada chose this weekend, a seemingly random time, to open up about being a little girl who has longed for more than just a father or step-father, but a daughter who is longing to find and connect with her daddy.

Read Jada’s comments below and let us know your thoughts. Will you share this with your father or the men in your life?

The Trials of a Fatherless daughter:
I’m sitting here, and I am hurting today. Now as I tell you this… I don’t want pity. I have learned to take pleasure in pain because it is simply a signal that a truth is stirring and I must wake up to find it. And usually for me waking up means letting go of a belief.

That’s what happened today because I found a little girl who can’t understand why she didn’t deserve to have a “daddy” in this lifetime. It hit me this morning that I will never call any man “daddy”. It hit me how significant that role is to any girls development and life. All these years I had denied that significance in order to forge ahead. The motto has always been, “Nothing can stop me” and “NEVER let them see you sweat”.

The worst part was… I had no one to blame… no one to throw this pain to and say, “YOUR FAULT”. But this pain did expose areas of immaturity in my relationships accompanied with unreasonable expectations. It explains why when I hear the sweet voice of my daughter call her father “daddy” my heart cries with joy and pain all at once. And it did explain my incompleteness. Yes, this Virgo woman is incomplete. What a horrifying but fulfilling admittance.

This is the void I will have to reconcile without blaming two men, my father and step father, who did the best they could. And no… sometimes our best is NOT good enough, but… the capacity of the human heart and the Great Spirit that breathes within it… makes it all… well.

Thanks for listening:)

And…lovelovelove on your children.

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